Doris I can only repeat, listen to Doug and to Jo, they are not telling you wrong. You are going to have good days and bad days and days in between, the important thing is not to give up. This is a fight that takes time but is well worth the effort. Why go through all this and not go for the optimum result, at least that is my way of thinking. I am still doing exercises and I am over seven months post op and doing great. I just want to make sure I am going to continue to do well and get the most I can out of each and every day. Also, why don't you try using your pain meds on a regular schedule just to see if you feel better. Do it for a week and I bet you are going to be shocked at how much better you feel and how much better you are doing. I think part of this is that you have been in pain for such a long time you are acclimated to the pain. That doesn't mean it hurts less it means your body is in pain and your mind is trying to overcome it. I say why suffer, we live in a wonderful age and doctors are finally beginning to realize that properly medicating pain is essential in our overall outcome. I don't care if I have to take pain meds the rest of my life, (I have an arthritic spine with severe stenosis in my cervical spine and it is inoperable as it is too risky to operate) I just want to make sure I get the most out of each and every day and for me that means I can take care of my husband and enjoy doing things for the people that I love. Good luck to you, you are in my prayers. Rowdy