Your family is coming through for you big time. You’ll be so happy to have them. And the church is there for you, too. That’ll be beyond helpful. With small children, you can use even more help than most who go through this kind of ordeal. And that you are already working with a gentle, understanding therapist is wonderful! Hang onto that one.
Paperwork and dealing with bureaucracies can be the most frustrating. It all sorts out but you and your husband may have to become squeaky wheels to move things along. Eventually it all gets done.