Well....if you can't get anyone else to do the cleaning, you'll just have to put blinders on for a bit. They make some lovely sleep masks these days, lol! Turn your dust into a contest, for instance, how long would it take for the dust to pile up 1/2 inch on top of the bureau? You and hubby can place cash bets, winner takes all! I happen to know the answer, but I'll nevah tell, hahahaha!
Here's some more wisdom from my surgeon, given at my pre-op exam: First, you're going to say "I hate Dr. Jones for doing this to me." Next you'll say, "I wish I'd never done this." Then, you'll fall into the "I'm never going to feel normal again." The last one is the one to avoid if at all possible. It's gloomy, soul-draining, and completely false. It doesn't have a shred of merit. If you must, spend a day or two there, but don't hang out there for too long, ok?
Try to think of this as a unique vacation from....EVERYTHING! It is, rather like a sabbatical. Accept all help offered and ask for help when needed; very important, and something most of us hate to do. We TKR's seem to be very stubborn, independent mules, who'd rather eat dirt than request assistance with something. So, request, this is YOUR time, eh?