I finally have my consultation visit with a new surgeon (a second opinion sort of) but it is a month away. I've been REALLY depressed (I've been on an anti-depressant for many years and I normally feel pretty good) and so lethargic waiting for my records to get transferred. Is this normal? Is it only the pain that's eating at me? I have so many questions and being a worrier, I would like to ask Josephine and the forum some of them. I'm sure the surgeon will answer them too, but it seems very far away. Should I be FORCING myself to exercise even if it hurts in preparation? I'm overweight but inactive because I am just exhausted from fighting pain every day. I work full-time and take mild pain killers to keep me focused at my job. Should I be trying to lose weight before the surgery? I am 53, 210 pounds, 5/2". I know the risks of the weight problem, but is it a good idea to start something before the surgery? Also, in regards to my job - I am a bookkeeper so I have a sit-down job. My boss is a really nice guy who says I can work from home (since I live across the alley from work). My question is a) will I FEEL like being up for a bit at first - maybe an hour a day for work once I get home from the hospital? (I know it's different for everyone but just a generalized answer would be helpful) b) I live alone in a second story apartment with 22 stairs. In fact I think that's why I've stayed as mobile as I am. I HAVE to go up and down them every day to go to work. My sister works in the office below my apartment and can check on me during the day, but will I NEED to have someone with me all of the time at first? I am SO excited at the prospect of walking again without pain and losing weight and feeling good about myself. But I am also afraid - I'm a wuss when it comes to pain and I've had a baby!! I'm am so impressed with this forum - everyone here seems very positive, very helpful and honest, and the posts are intelligent and address questions so well. Thanks in advance!