@52andHippy Welcome! Glad you found this forum and can get some advice and comfort.
I can't agree with Jaycey enough about stopping exercises when your work is that activity based. that is a lot of steps!
If you'd like I can leave you some things that you can do at home to possibly help ease your swelling, In fact I'll leave it here for you and you can decide if you want to try it.
I still do this at night and I am almost 5 months post op and have a very active job.
Good luck and I hope the icing and resting more will help. The info that I am leaving you is part of a Lymphatic drainage routine and it's for lower limb swelling.
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Take deep breaths.. deep, as in breathing in to a count of 5, or 3 or 4, whatever is best for you. hold it for another count of 5 then blow out completely, still using the count that's comfortable for you. A series of at least 6 of these could help get your excess swelling to move. To ensure you are taking proper deep breaths, place your hand on your naval and watch while taking in your breath, if doing this properly you should see your hand move up.
Do this whenever you feel up to it during the day or night. The more supine that you could get in the recliner or bed, the more effective this can be.. you have lymph nodes seated there in your groin and sitting up too much can cause a restriction of the lymph flow.
You can, after the breathing, place your hands lightly on your upper thigh, right where the crease is in your groin and lightly stroke upwards towards your naval.
I did this quite a bit post op and while it takes a while for the body to wake up and respond, it will, and it will help get things moving.
The reason this can help is because our lymphatic system doesn't use our cardiovascular system to help lymph fluids move.. no assistance from the heart pumping. Our breathing and our physical (muscular) movements keep it flowing.
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