Hi, mog, and Welcome to Bonesmart!
I’m so sorry that you have a surgeon who believes a certain ROM number must happen by a certain date. Some of us take longer to achieve certain numbers, and that’s ok. The real truth is, ROM can continue to improve well after the whole first year, and even longer than that. My ROM continued to improve even after 2 years!
You really should stop trying to force your knee to bend, because, as you found, it only upsets your knee further, causing more swelling and pain. It is swelling that is preventing your bend. Also, weights are bad for a new knee, putting too much stress on it, so stop using that, too.
Contrary to popular opinion, we get far better results when we treat our knee gently so it can heal from this major surgical assault. Any exercises we do that cause pain are counterproductive.
So, take a deep breath and take a break from those exercises so your knee can settle down. Rest as much as you can, ice and elevate your leg as much as you can. Just walking around doing the normal things you do in the course of your day will be plenty of exercise for you right now.
Also, the final decision about an MUA is actually yours. Your surgeon can recommend it, but you don’t have to consent to it, and he can’t do it without your consent.
Regaining our ROM is more about Time than repetitions of a list of exercises.
Time to recover.
Time for pain and swelling to settle.
Time to heal.
Our range of motion is right there all
along just waiting for that to happen so it can show itself.
In the general run of things, it doesn't need to be fought for, worked hard for or worried about. It will happen.
Normal activity is the key to success.
I will leave you our Recovery Guidelines. Each article is short but very informative. Following these guidelines will help you have a less painful recovery.
Knee Recovery: The Guidelines
1.
Don’t worry: Your body will heal all by itself. Relax, let it, don't try and hurry it, don’t worry about any symptoms now, they are almost certainly temporary
2.
Control discomfort:
3.
Do what you want to do BUT
a. If it hurts, don't do it and don't allow anyone - especially a physical therapist - to do it to you
b. If your leg swells more or gets stiffer in the 24 hours after doing it, don't do it again.
4.
PT or exercise can be useful BUT take note of these
5.
At week 4 and after you should follow this
6.
Access to these pages on the website
The Recovery articles:
The importance of managing pain after a TKR and the pain chart
Swollen and stiff knee: what causes it?
Energy drain for TKRs
Elevation is the key
Ice to control pain and swelling
Heel slides and how to do them properly
Chart representation of TKR recovery
Healing: how long does it take?
Post op blues is a reality - be prepared for it
Sleep deprivation is pretty much inevitable - but what causes it?
There are also some cautionary articles here
Myth busting: no pain, no gain
Myth busting: the "window of opportunity" in TKR
Myth busting: on getting addicted to pain meds
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