Thank you all for the warm welcome! I'm very excited to be here! Its been a long time coming. In spring 2015 I first went to a surgeon about my knee at that appointment he walked in the room after looking at X-rays and said "are you hear about your hip or your knee? You hip is really horrendous". He gave me my options explained the recovery involved etc and we agree to try a cortisone shot in the knee to buy me some time to make decisions. My mother had just died that spring after a lengthy illness so I decided to wait as long as possible to consider surgery in order to give my kids some stability. Finally, this June, my hip began buckling under me and simply wouldn't hold me up. I decided it was time. Between researching surgeons, my schedule and his schedule, I was finally able to get my hip done Sept 16. 5 and a half weeks ago.
I was so happy to find out at my follow up on Monday that surgeon has a cancellation Dec. 9. Woo hooo! Otherwise I was waiting until end of feb and then looking at having the recovery drag into prime gardening time. I'm so happy to get it down early!
When we explained the economics the kids took it in stride. My youngest who may still believe in santa wasn't thrilled but as long as we make grandma's christmas cookies he'll come around.
@Celle, thanks for the advice. I do have a husband who has committed to helping. He usually goes into an annual depression around the holidays, but has told me "I won't this year". We'll seee......He has been pretty awesome during my hip recovery, so I expect he will step up. And hey, it will force us to identify what is really important and let the other stuff go. My mom set the bar very high as far as Christmas, but she died over a year ago, so now it is time to forge our own traditions.
We invited inlaws here for some portion of the holidays, but honestly it will probably be just as easy if they don't come. MIL offered to have a christmas eve brunch at their house, but its 60-90 minutes away. Am I right in assuming that I won't want to travel that far when I am just 2 weeks out?
Honestly this could be the best christmas. I plan to have all that I can do done by December 8 and I can crack the whip with my husband (as far as lights, gift shopping for his family etc) without feeling guilty. My brother may come down. He says he doesn't care if we eat pizza as long as were are together.
@Celle good for you for making your special gravy. I figured I would either buy or maybe I will make ahead and freeze.
@KarriB yikes! Infection surgery right before thanksgiving and picc line etc throughout the season. Thanks for the perspective. Sounds like you all managed well.
We took thanksgiving to my mom in her nursing home in her last year. She lives 4 hours away so we catered it from a local grocery and I cooked the turkey in my hotel room. Luckily mom had bought me an electric roaster oven the year before because i have a small kitchen. We made the entire hotel smell heavenly.
@macduf387 yay! a partner in crime! I'm so glad to know someone going through it around the same time as me. Looking forward to hearing more about your recovery last year and look forward to recovering with you this year.
So you have been there, am I right in thinking that traveling at 2 weeks is not a great idea?
So grateful to all for the warm welcome. The hippies can tell you I tend to write novels. I hope i don't drive you nuts!