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Only four days to go! Glad to read you‘re not feeling apprehensive. That certainly helps. Reassure your guy you’ll be okay and actually better off once you’re healed.
Let the countdown begin….Best Wishes!
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@sunnyphoenix The day before call about time to report is pretty typical for US hospitals. And yes Yippee your waiting is almost over!! Wishing you all the very best with your hip replacement!
 
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Good morning,

My first thought this morning when my demon cats woke me at 4:30 as usual was, "This is the last day I have to endure this pain." I know there will be pain post-op but it should be manageable and should gradually decrease and hopefully disappear someday - better than feeling it get worse day by day. I've been telling myself such things as, "Tomorrow at this time I should be in pre-op, waiting to go into surgery. I know I'll be visited by 10-20 staff members, some causing minor pain and others just introducing themselves and asking if I know why I'm there. I found that funny last time and probably will again. I should tell them I'm about to deliver my baby, but at 74 I might be labelled a troublemaker or worse and be sent for a psych eval.

When I scheduled this surgery, I told my surgeon I didn't want a nerve block (after rejecting one for my knee last year and never regretting it) and he said to "just tell the anesthesiologist when he comes around." I was hoping it wouldn't be ordered, thus preventing him/her from coming to me but maybe they just show up for all patients. At any rate, I'll have no trouble sending the person on his/her way.

Yesterday my man wanted to go to the furniture store as we're moving into our new house in a few months and need several things. He asked if I felt up to "walking a long way today." I did not even feel like walking from my recliner to the kitchen to get lunch so had to turn him down. I know I'm being a baby but it hurts. Bottom line. We have plenty of time to shop when I'm better able to walk, and I'll enjoy it much more. He understood and was fine with waiting, but overall I think he's more excited than I about after surgery because I'll be able/willing to do so much more. He's pretty concerned about the surgery itself but I keep telling him, "piece of cake. I go to sleep, other people do all the work, I wake up, pee, and go home."

I'll "talk" to you all soon. Have a great day.
 

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I should tell them I'm about to deliver my baby, but at 74 I might be labelled a troublemaker or worse and be sent for a psych eval.
:rotfl: Do It! :wink:
Oh my goodness...you're funny!
Best Wishes for tomorrow...see you on the flip side soon!
 

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@sunnyphoenix Hang on to your humor! Every surgery I've had I've found a way or two to make the folks caring for me laugh or at least smile! When I had my hips replaced the nurse approached me with a big marker pen and asked "which hip are we replacing today?" When I said "both" the look on her face was priceless! She went and checked my chart then put her pen away and grinned at me. And when I was being wheeled into the OR there was a niche outside with big masks (special ones made for some of the surgeons) that looked like thing from a sci-fi monster movie. So I quipped to my surgeon "I saw those masks. Are we making a bug-eyed monster movie today? Do I get to be a monster?" And went off to la-la land hearing everyone laughing.

Best wishes to you! And we will see you on the other side!
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HOORAY! I just heard from the hospital, and I need to arrive tomorrow at 5:15 AM, with surgery scheduled for 7:30. I'll be my doctor's first operation. This is all good news because it gives me a better chance of coming home in the mid-afternoon. For my knee surgery it began at 9:00 AM and I was back in my recliner by 3:30 PM. It's not quite 4:30 PM here in Arizona as I write this so I'm telling myself that in 24 hours I'll be home and it will be over. :yes!:
 
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Yep, it's today and I'm ready to leave except for running a brush through my hair and putting on shoes. I'm wearing a VERY loose dress which fit me two years ago when I weighed over 250 pounds. Last year for my tkr I had a pair of elastic waist shorts but since then I've lost another 40 pounds after losing 50 between September 2021 and March 2022, and they've been given away. When I was instructed to wear something "loose" I almost went to Goodwill to buy something but remembered this one dress which was still in my closet so . . . .

I hear my man's alarm so he'll be getting ready in a minute and we'll leave in half an hour. I keep thinking I should be more frightened then I am, but there's no need to force fear, is there? I do admit to some apprehension but I'm curious to know if this year's pre-op routine will be exactly the same as last year, so am approaching this as a science project.

I expect to be home in 12 hours or fewer and will report back as soon as possible.
 
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Good morning djklaugh,

I copied and posted my note regarding surgery being over on the Post-Op page. Should I cut and paste your message and InkedMarie's also, or can they stay where they are?

Thank-you for telling me how to move to the correct area. "Post" seems so much better than "Pre." :loveshwr:

Marilyn
 

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