Update- I am now back in my apartment with just me and my daughter. It is taking some adjusting. The first day was rough. I don't really have a comfortable place to sit other than my desk chair. I get up every 30 minutes and walk around and ice a few times a day while laying down. I can make small meals and have managed to take showers with the assistance of a bath seat. My problem is I drop things A LOT! I have a reacher tool....but some things just can't be picked up with the the reacher/grabber! I have learned to scoot things over to a convenient place where I can leverage a wall or something.

I cannot put on my compression socks on my own, and it is difficult for my daughter to help with this, but we have managed so far. (I have a sock tool coming via delivery in the next day or so)
I had my first outpatient therapy and managed to snag the same therapist as last year! I love him!! This year I have all 20 of my visits covered by insurance, (last year I had used a lot before surgery) so he suggested I start out once a week and do some walking at home when I can, and then build up to 2 a week once I am a bit more healed.
It's so easy to be discouraged and frustrated post surgery...and it DOES happen. I highly recommend finding little wins each day and celebrate those. They will eventually lead you to the bigger picture.