As long as your leg is swollen or in pain, you should not be doing any exercises in therapy other than gentle bends and stretches to keep the joint moving. You need to be doing that during the day as well every couple of hours. It is not good to spend all your time lying down. But Jockette is right....that old story that your leg will freeze up and scar tissue will render you motionless is not true. Just be sure you are doing some bends and stretches every hour or so and walk about 5 minutes every couple of hours. The important thing is to get your swelling down and keep pain at bay.
The medication that they may want you to taper off is Dilaudid. Ask them if you can try to taper it and instead use the Tramadol along with Extra Strength Tylenol for pain for a while. Most people will do well with 50mg Tramadol taken every 4-6 hours (not to exceed 300mg in 24 hours) and the Tylenol taken every 6 hours (not to exceed 4000mg in 24 hours). If you have any kidney problems, you need to ensure your doctor knows about that because it can impact how much Tylenol is safe for you to take.
If this assistant refuses to work with you on pain medications, ask to speak with the surgeon. The surgeon is your doctor, not the assistant. You can always try your GP, but it would be best to try and work with the surgeon to find some way to keep you comfortable as you're healing. You should never be in extreme pain. That hurts your recovery.
It may seem like you're worse for a while, but your knee and leg have been through a lot. I suspect your recovery may be a bit slower than normal and your surgeon should allow for that with what he expects from you. And, he should convey that to his assistant so she's not trying to treat you as if your situation is just a routine recovery.
Stay strong and stand up for yourself. I know that sometimes is difficult and it might not make the people you're trying to work with very happy. But it is your right to advocate for yourself. You are an equal partner in your healthcare and you have a voice. Don't be afraid to use it. Insist that each person you talk to give you logical explanations for why they want you to do something, weigh it with what you know about your own body, and then make your decision about what you're willing to do. The fact that your knee might need a little more time to regain ROM and get swelling down doesn't mean you cannot have success.
The medication that they may want you to taper off is Dilaudid. Ask them if you can try to taper it and instead use the Tramadol along with Extra Strength Tylenol for pain for a while. Most people will do well with 50mg Tramadol taken every 4-6 hours (not to exceed 300mg in 24 hours) and the Tylenol taken every 6 hours (not to exceed 4000mg in 24 hours). If you have any kidney problems, you need to ensure your doctor knows about that because it can impact how much Tylenol is safe for you to take.
If this assistant refuses to work with you on pain medications, ask to speak with the surgeon. The surgeon is your doctor, not the assistant. You can always try your GP, but it would be best to try and work with the surgeon to find some way to keep you comfortable as you're healing. You should never be in extreme pain. That hurts your recovery.
It may seem like you're worse for a while, but your knee and leg have been through a lot. I suspect your recovery may be a bit slower than normal and your surgeon should allow for that with what he expects from you. And, he should convey that to his assistant so she's not trying to treat you as if your situation is just a routine recovery.
Stay strong and stand up for yourself. I know that sometimes is difficult and it might not make the people you're trying to work with very happy. But it is your right to advocate for yourself. You are an equal partner in your healthcare and you have a voice. Don't be afraid to use it. Insist that each person you talk to give you logical explanations for why they want you to do something, weigh it with what you know about your own body, and then make your decision about what you're willing to do. The fact that your knee might need a little more time to regain ROM and get swelling down doesn't mean you cannot have success.