@JT56 Wow 51 years of limping with a leg length differential! I can understand why you feel frustrated but it is going to take quite a bit of time for you to get all the muscles, tendons, and ligaments in your leg - indeed in your whole body - to a place where all are functioning as they are supposed to. Every bone and muscle is connected even remotely to every other bone and muscle. Slow and gentle will get you where you want to be.
Just to put things into a bit of perspective for you ... I limped for about 3 years with my bad hips. I could walk and climb stairs fairly well right after surgery (though quite slowly at first). But it took about 4 months of PT to get left foot onto right knee. And nearly 9 months to get right foot onto left knee.
You may have already done this and if so I apologize for being redundant - if you are wearing shoes that you wore a lot before your surgery, get new ones ASAP. When one limps for a long time the wear patterns on shoes reflect that not good gait. And continuing to wear them keeps you in the old limping pattern .... and is NOT good for new hips!
One thing I noticed after my BTHR was my center of gravity shifted. It took me a while to notice this but once I did and made adjustments to how I stand and move that did seem to help me heal faster. Long ago in an exercise class I was taking the instructor said one's center of gravity was where, if you stuck a pole through your body and spun around that pole, the top half and the bottom half would spin smoothly. Sorry for the sort of graphic image. For men the center is usually at their belly button as they tend to carry more weight in their chest and shoulders. For women the center is usually about 6" below the belly button as we tend to carry more weight in our hips. And it's in the middle of the inside of your body. Finding that center can be a bit of a challenge - stand as straight as you can with shoulders over pelvis. Think about your body and where that center might be. Mentally feel around - when you find it, in my experience, there's a sort of internal "clunk" as if something as has found it' s proper place.
Best of everything to you
