faster pussycat
junior member
Hi I had right THR 2014, am due left THR 30 November. I'm shy and I'm not a wildly sociable person but I've always had friends. However this last year or two I've felt so awful I've not gone out much and have turned down invitations etc because I just haven't felt like going anywhere.
Now I find that my friends have abandoned me and don't contact me any more and I'm feeling very lonely. I don't want to contact them just to let them know I'm having the surgery because that feels like emotional blackmail. But I'd appreciate their support. And if it was the other way round and they were having surgery, I'd want to know, and to see if I could help.
But my friends know I'm on the waiting list for surgery so I feel they could have asked if I have a date yet. Does anyone else feel the same way ?
Now I find that my friends have abandoned me and don't contact me any more and I'm feeling very lonely. I don't want to contact them just to let them know I'm having the surgery because that feels like emotional blackmail. But I'd appreciate their support. And if it was the other way round and they were having surgery, I'd want to know, and to see if I could help.
But my friends know I'm on the waiting list for surgery so I feel they could have asked if I have a date yet. Does anyone else feel the same way ?