shell_shocked_jock
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Hello everyone. I am a 31 y/o man who was diagnosed with AVN on April 28. I had difficulty finding the right words to explain my pain and hadn't taken it seriously as I thought it was working out too hard or some other general stiffness, etc. I had been in pain for over 2 years and nothing could have prepared me to hear I would need a THR in America while not having insurance. Luckily I found a doctor at a sliding scale clinic who was young and progressive and dedicated to seeing me through this ordeal. I hadn't fully appreciated how much my lifestyle had been compromised by this limping and pain. She immediately helped me with my pain management and referred me to a big teaching University hospital that encouraged me to put off surgery as long as I could because of my young age. I felt like I had no voice and couldn't speak forcefully on my own behalf because I had no insurance. They told me to come back in 6 months and we would consider the situation then. Because this is such a small town and the University and Hospital are such a big part of the community I really got out there and started writing letters and advocating on my behalf and asking others to do the same for me. I had another appointment at the joint clinic in August where they attempted to dissuade me away from surgery and told me that I was on the "waiting list" and people could be on the waiting list for months before being called. I made friends with the lady who made appointments who gave me lots of good advice about how to effectively advocate for myself and how to present myself and the best way to move ahead quickly. I made another appointment to state my case October 27th.
Meanwhile, opiates in the form of percocet became a fentanyl patch and I was starting to worry about the long term consequences of such habit forming drugs. The pain was so bad I was unable to sleep at night and Ambien became part of my pain management cocktail. I also was seeing a physical therapist to try to strengthen my legs and body so I would be in great shape when the time for surgery came. He showed me there were a great many exercises I could do for hamstrings and gluteal muscles that were not weight bearing. I could barely walk 2 blocks but once I got to the gym I could really strengthen my body. I was seeing a psychiatrist who swapped the Ambien for elevil (an antidepressant) with the side effect of making you sleep. At my appointment in October the resident I met with went over my file and I told him I believed and my physical therapist and doctor believed we had taken the conservative route as far as we could and now it was time for surgery. I told him how hard I had worked so I would be in great shape when the time came for surgery and the sooner the better. He spoke with the attending surgeon who came in and looked at my xrays and spoke with me and agreed my xrays were "impressive" and we should not wait any longer. We made a date for December 8! I am meeting with him again the last week of November and am meeting with my doc who will give me clearance next week!
I have great faith in the surgeon who will be performing/overseeing the procedure. He thinks I am a perfect candidate for ceramic on ceramic and after speaking with him and doing my own research I agree with him. He has done more than 500 of them in the past year and that is pretty much the only material he uses. He offered to refer me to someone else if I wanted to explore Hip Resurfacing or Metal on Metal but the science behind ceramic on ceramic is compelling. As a younger person I think its my best shot at not needing a revision in the future. I am so ready to move forward and want to encourage others out there who are being told they are too young or that they should wait for any other reason to not take that as the final answer. Do a lot of research and have a good idea of what you want before you meet a surgeon so you can participate fully in the dialogue. The days of doing what the doctor says are over and we must look toward a model of collaboration. No one is going to be as mindful about your health as you are. Doctors may have the best of intentions but they are busy and have lots of competing agendas.
As scary and as frustrating as this experience has been it has inspired me to move in a different direction in my professional life. I was studying to be an Art Appraiser but had to drop out because I had no money for tuition and getting around to classes was too difficult anyway. While I haven't made any final decisions I am thinking about a future career in rehabilitation or physical therapy or something relating to getting our bodies in good shape. I know that my surgery will go better because of the work I am doing now and I want to take what I have learned and share it with others. Warm thoughts and advice and love are all welcomed so please give me a shout out! I would never have asked for this but I am trying to make the best of the situation.
Warm hugs,
Daniel
Meanwhile, opiates in the form of percocet became a fentanyl patch and I was starting to worry about the long term consequences of such habit forming drugs. The pain was so bad I was unable to sleep at night and Ambien became part of my pain management cocktail. I also was seeing a physical therapist to try to strengthen my legs and body so I would be in great shape when the time for surgery came. He showed me there were a great many exercises I could do for hamstrings and gluteal muscles that were not weight bearing. I could barely walk 2 blocks but once I got to the gym I could really strengthen my body. I was seeing a psychiatrist who swapped the Ambien for elevil (an antidepressant) with the side effect of making you sleep. At my appointment in October the resident I met with went over my file and I told him I believed and my physical therapist and doctor believed we had taken the conservative route as far as we could and now it was time for surgery. I told him how hard I had worked so I would be in great shape when the time came for surgery and the sooner the better. He spoke with the attending surgeon who came in and looked at my xrays and spoke with me and agreed my xrays were "impressive" and we should not wait any longer. We made a date for December 8! I am meeting with him again the last week of November and am meeting with my doc who will give me clearance next week!
I have great faith in the surgeon who will be performing/overseeing the procedure. He thinks I am a perfect candidate for ceramic on ceramic and after speaking with him and doing my own research I agree with him. He has done more than 500 of them in the past year and that is pretty much the only material he uses. He offered to refer me to someone else if I wanted to explore Hip Resurfacing or Metal on Metal but the science behind ceramic on ceramic is compelling. As a younger person I think its my best shot at not needing a revision in the future. I am so ready to move forward and want to encourage others out there who are being told they are too young or that they should wait for any other reason to not take that as the final answer. Do a lot of research and have a good idea of what you want before you meet a surgeon so you can participate fully in the dialogue. The days of doing what the doctor says are over and we must look toward a model of collaboration. No one is going to be as mindful about your health as you are. Doctors may have the best of intentions but they are busy and have lots of competing agendas.
As scary and as frustrating as this experience has been it has inspired me to move in a different direction in my professional life. I was studying to be an Art Appraiser but had to drop out because I had no money for tuition and getting around to classes was too difficult anyway. While I haven't made any final decisions I am thinking about a future career in rehabilitation or physical therapy or something relating to getting our bodies in good shape. I know that my surgery will go better because of the work I am doing now and I want to take what I have learned and share it with others. Warm thoughts and advice and love are all welcomed so please give me a shout out! I would never have asked for this but I am trying to make the best of the situation.
Warm hugs,
Daniel