It Wasn't A Hernia - Story

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JohnieKnoxville

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Hi Everybody,

I want thank all those who have posted on this forum and also a big time thanks to Josephine for everything she does to keep things going here! I've been a 'lurker' on the site for probably a few months, and have wanted to contribute by posting my story. But, most of my questions, concerns, and fears have been covered by others and my 'story' to this point, THR surgery in 5 days, doesn't pop out to me as anything exceptional - but I still want to contribute. Somewhere in my medical travels over the past 6-8 weeks, I was asked, "you know the difference between minor and major surgery don't you(?), it's minor if it's on anybody else, but it's major if it's on you!" We can all relate!

I'm 55, male, fairly active- gardening, landscaping, carpentry, golfer -'have been in and out of shape several times in life, and out of shape (30-35 pounds over weight) about 4 months ago when I told I needed hip replacement. I spent a year thinking I had a hernia which my family doctor diagnosed as a slight or 'sports' hernia which might be healed by taking anti inflammatories and laying off the activities for a few weeks. That routine always seemed to work for awhile, and it also did when a general surgeon who I went to see to get the hernia surgery wanted to try it. It was the general surgeon who did a hip x-ray and found that the advanced arthritis in my hip was causing me the problem. (All things considered, I'd rather be having a hernia surgery, but oh well...).

So a few week later when my orthopedic surgeon, (the general surgeon sent his father to this O.S. for arthritic joint problems- a fairly good recommendation), told me I needed a hip replacement, I was floored! While I'm thinking, 'man, I'm way too young for this program', he told me that I had three options; 1) live with it, 2) pain management with anti inflammatory and possibly a steroid shot right into the hip joint, and 3) total hip replacement surgery. Then he says "whatever you decide, I still want to see you in 6 months, but if you want my honest opinion - you won’t make it 6 months without deciding on the hip surgery"! And damn, of course he was right.

I've been accused of being 'long-winded', but have two things about my program to point out, and will try to practice brevity. First for any potential THR candidate lurkers out there who may be trying to decide what to do, I chose my O.S.'s options 2 and 3. I got the super steroid shot right into the hip joint in December and took anti inflammatoriess so I could exercise like crazy to loose weight and build muscle strength prior to surgery. I was a slacker through the Christmas holidays but been in the gym and on the track since then losing 15 lbs, and 4 inches in my waist. (I still have 4-5 inches to go and was doing great on the 'good diet', until all the Girl Scout cookies started showing up last week..., but I ain't finished, and will reach my goal, after surgery!) My theory was/is, that if I could manage, or eliminate the pain it didn't matter how much damage I did to my hip since they're gonna throw it away and put in a new one. The only irony is that now my leg muscles are in better shape then they've been in for a long time, just so they can be sliced and diced by the Doc!

Lastly, (Finally!), because I've read so much here about people who have put up with their pain, suffering, and lifestyle curtailment for years, or long periods of time, I kinda feel like I haven’t adequately paid my dues, so to speak, to be able to join this club. I've only had pain problems for about a year, and it only got really bad when I did serious exertion, or maybe over -exertion. When I was talking about this a few times with one of my golfing buddies, he said that his wife said she noticed that I was limping after a round of golf when we walked uptown from his house to see a concert a few years ago. I always thought it was normal 'old guy' aches, and it was sort of like a 'catch' in my hip when walking sometimes, but not real major suffering. But wimp or whatever, I'll be a full fledge member of this club in 5 days on Thursday morning! I will side over to the recovery side of the forum after surgery and post some follow up info on how I do. Maybe the surgery will solve my hip and long-windedness issues!

Thank you really everybody, for posting on what's going on with your hip replacements, it's been a real big help to me!!! (Fooled you 'thought I was done –I’m getting a metal on metal, no weight restrictions once I'm healed, and a 'minimally invasive' surgery procedure). My name is John and I'm from Knoxville, TN, but I go by Jack.

True best wishes too all, and again, Thanks!
Jack
 
Hi Jack! And let me be the first hippy to extend a welcome to you! I'm sure each of us "lurked" for a little while before coming on board!
Each of us also runs the gamet of emotions,,,,,,,we've done the anti inflammatory route, isometric exercise, chiropractic, accupuncture,aqua therapy, you name it! Each therapy is excellent, but once your're bone on bone (I was one!), there was no hope of ever 3eally "getting better!"
I went to 3 highly skilled surgeons,,,,had the MRI, had a cortisone shot, but as soon as I was diagnosed with avascular necrosis,,,,,for me it was an EASY decision,,,not IF, but WHEN I can have the surgery!
Had only One friend that's been down this road, so we really couldn't compare notes!
He had injuries from playing catcher in high school & college!
I wanted my life back! Two summers ago I walked 4 miles a day! Last summer I couldn't walk from one side of a room to the other without grimacing in pain!
Today I'm 4 months out! It was one of the best decisions I've EVER made! My friends remark how they can't believe its really me, they can't keep up with me! My grandson. (2 yo) doesn't immitate me. limping with his little baseball bat! Life is spectacular again!
My husband. & I are on our way to a flea market today! I think I got the BIGGEST prize of all,,,,,just getting my life BACK!
I say, without a single reservation,,,,GO FOR IT, JACK! Good luck! (I also have metal on metal,,,,so BIONIC!!!)
 
Welcome to the forum, Jack! I enjoyed hearing your story and think you are making the right choice. Believe me, there are NO "dues to pay" to be a part of this family. Even one DAY of pain is too much and if you've got it, you're one of us. Post any time you feel like it and we'll look forward to hearing from you after surgery. Best of luck to you!!!
 
Well, I didn't lurk! Straight in there, no messing! My previous existance was "dids" - join date May 27th, 2007 and then as me June 8th, 2007.

I have a friend who had her hip done last year. She was a member of my staff down in Essex. She had a 'bit of back pain' and went to see one of the surgeons we'd worked with. He told her she needed a THR but she always claimed she didn't really believe it as she didn't think she was in that much pain. But since she knew and trusted Charles (the surgeon) she let him do it. Now, since she's back on her feet and into her life again, she declares she never realised how much she was restricted and suffering until it was gone!

So now, Jack, you're joining the hippie clan! Welcome to the family and I hope all goes well for you. I'll be thinking of you on 12th.


btw - loved your closure - reminded me from the line in "The American President" (1995) "My name is Bob Rumson and I'm running for president!"
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Hey Jack
Welcome frfom another hippy. I totally enjoyed your story. I too tend to tell long stories or long comments, glad to not be alone.
I did not suffer for years like some either. When it was known that the hip replacement was going to be necessary, I just said lets do it to the doc. I did have something wrong with the hip for most if not all of my life, but I always said I was part dog and had hip dysplasia . I love dogs no offense to those of you with hip dysplasia. I was also under investigation for Cushing's disease which is common in dogs, not so in people.

You made 2 great decisions, one to have your hip replaced, second to join our family.
Waiting to hear any last minute questions or thoughts you may have . Good Luck on thursday
WElcome
Judy
 
Hi Jack and welcome! I'm 54 and I'm 4 1/2 weeks out from RTHR, and I am with you on being in the best shape you can be going in to this surgery! I have worked out for years, and I did not let the pain stop me. I was just diagnosed in late Oct., so I didn't have that horrible pain nearly as long as a lot of people. Once I knew I had to have the surgery, I just kept right on - 30 min. on stairstepper, upper body weights, leg lifts, rowing machine, 4 days a week right up to the day before surgery and it really paid off. (Although I am, always have been and probably always will be, a little overweight.) I think I have had the easiest recovery I could have ever hoped for. I didn't need any narcotics in the hospital, I was walking with no crutch or cane by about 2 1/2 weeks, went back to work (office job) part-time at 19 days. That's not to say the first week or so was a bed of roses - that sleeping on the back, trying to take a shower sitting down, things like that were a real pain (no pun intended!)! I was lucky that my dr. allowed me to sleep on my stomach with pillow between legs at 12 days. I go to PT twice a week, and even my therapist has been amazed at my recovery. So keep at it right up to your big day! Keep posting, and we will all be thinking good thoughts for you on the 12th!

Karen
 
Welcome, Jack! Glad you discovered this forum before your surgery & found it helpful. (I didn't find it until a month after my THR--4 months out now--but still find it a great resource. Plus, no matter how much support you get from family & friends, it's always great to chat with others who totally understand because they've shared similar experiences.)

I'll echo everyone else: you'll be amazed at how wonderful it is to be pain-free & active! (As for long-windedness--sorry, not gonna happen--take it from one who knows! :)

Best wishes on the 12th & look forward to hearing from you after!
 
Welcome Jack! I also had THR at 55, last August. I echo all that is said here. Also had metal on metal, really great recovery. AT over 6 months out, I am more active than any time since my young adult years. Today I was out walking with a group of folks and they had a hard time keeping up with me. In contrast, I was in pain after a few steps before surgery. Though I had increasing pain and stiffness for probably 20 years, thought it was sciatica til about 4 yrs ago. Didn't even go to have it checked until last June. Dr said I needed THR and I was so ready.

Will look forward tohearing from you on the other side. Like Jo said, most of us who are doing well move along after a short time. I have appreciated the support of this forum so much but do find myself checking in less frequently. Know this is a normal transition--but not ready to sign off yet!! Need to hear how folks are doing (like you and Hopalong...)

Take care,
Laurie
 
Hello Jack and welcome! I had a LTHR 17 weeks ago and as everyone has already said - I have my life back! You won't believe how much difference it will make until you've had it done! And you've done the right thing in building up all those muscles - cos I'm still working hard at getting muscle strength back - even now! I didn't discover this forum until several weeks after my op, but I have to have my right hip replaced as well - so I'll be "hanging out" here for a while yet!

Good luck with everything - looking forward to hearing from you afterwards!

Peta
 
Hi, to my new hippie friends!

Thank you for the kind comments and encouragement. The support here at BoneSmart with others who are doing or have done the hip replacement program is really a cool thing.

I am an information nut on almost everything I get involved with, 'wife says obsessive, and that was why I originally found my way onto the site. You can get real honest opinions, see what others have experienced and has worked or not worked, and get past any marketing hype on forums. And, here you also get answers and encouragement from medical professionals in our forum’s moderators- who are the bomb! (Jamie, I didn’t mean to leave you out of my acknowledgement, and appreciation for the mod’s. But, if Josephine proudly, and as proudly she should, calls herself, ‘Mother Hen’, why don’t you call yourself, ‘The Young Chick’?)

So while at first I was just seeking information, I found support from others in like circumstances, and it really, really is a cool thing! I wasn’t even thinking about that originally. I am going to try real hard to help others with encouragement here, as I go through this ‘hippie’ process in the next several months. Thank You!
Jack
 
You're kinda cool yourself, brother!
 
What a wonderful goal, Jack! You can bet that those who come after you will appreciate your detailed descriptions of what you went through with your surgery.

As for my title....I feel fortunate to be a moderator. Jo asked that I serve that role so there would be someone here while she is having her surgery. Like all of us, there will no doubt be days she won't feel up to reading and posting for hours during a day. My job will be to try and keep things running while she's out. I'm a Mod Chick In Training. I definitely don't have Jo's medical background, but there are plenty of administrative tasks I can do for her. And.....I do have access to all her wonderful "lectures" from the past to quote whenever needed.
 
Yep! Jamie's full of practical knowledge! And she puts up with us,too!!!! :)
 
Hi Jack,I had better not say that at a airport had I? I enjoyed reading about your story. One thing that most of us on this site have in common,is that we had to decide on our own,is how much of our lifestyles were we willing give up before we would decide to go ahead and have the surgery.
In my case the decision was easier than most of the people on here.I have been handicapped since age 13 with a broken hip. I am now 54 years old. The only physical sport I could enjoy was bowling. I had given that up over a year ago,as it had become too painful for me to enjoy. I had gotten to the point that every step I made was painful. I knew that I could not continue to work like that. And then we were notified that my wife's employer was shutting down and we would soon lose our health insurance. So I felt like I no longer had a choice but to have it done.
I hope that things go well for you. As good of shape as your in,I suspect you will have a short recovery. If you need any help in getting rid of the G.S. cookies,you can send them down here to MS. I'll even pay the postage.
 
Yep! Jamie's full of practical knowledge! And she puts up with us,too!!!! :)

Thanks, Judles.....there's really no "puttin' up" with anything.....I LOVE my forum family!!!
 
And the feeling's mutual! Jamie,,, I'm speaking for ALL us Bonesmarties!!! :)
 
Okay....NOW I'm blushing......
 
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