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@karmakat! You've certainly come to the right place. When wondering if it was time, I considered how small my life had become. I declined lots of events as I considered "how far will I have to walk", "how long do I have to stand", "will I have to climb stairs", and "is there a place to sit". When I completed a similar score chart to the one that
@Sara61 shared, my scores confirmed that the knee deterioration was significantly preventing me from enjoying life or even managing the house well.
It's your decision but I can tell you that I have had relatively smooth recoveries on both knees, much like most total knee replacement (TKR) patients. It took about 3 months from my 1st TKR to feel good about doing the surgery and another 3 months for me to be happy enough to realize I'd do the other knee. I'm already happy that I did the 2nd knee since I really see (as I type through tears) a future where my knees are pain-free. There are certainly risks and, fortunately, Bonesmart has support for people who encounter the risks, too. Here, you can talk through your concerns with people who have been through the surgery and recovery. I wish you the best, whatever you decide.