HI Beth,
I had simultaneous bilateral THR in May 05. Does your surgeon plan on doing yours simultaneously? If you are a good candidate for that, it is a great way to go since you have only one surgery, one recovery, little leg length discrepancy, etc.
If you are going to have both done at the same time, it would be in your best interest to start strength training right now and get as strong as possible before surgery. Made a huge difference for me! I was home from the hospital in 2 days and never looked back!
The hospital should provide you with lots of information, an OT will help teach you all the little tricks, and a PT will get you back on recovery. I really had very little trouble doing daily tasks, was even forgetting to use my crutches going room to room within 4 days. There are several handy gadgets that Josephine has mentioned that will be great little friends. And you will find things out that work best for you. I worked out my own way of getting in and out of my tub. Since you can lift your leg behind you, I was able to face the wall next to the tub and lean on it, then lift my legs up behind me and over the tub wall. First the leg closest to the tub, then a little side step followed by the second leg. It was also a big asset having a supporting DH! So I never used a shower seat, was able to stand in the wonderful shower. I was allowed to shower as soon as I wished as long as I covered the incisions with waterproof dressing. I also found getting out of bed by scooching down and off the bottom of the bed instead of the side was easier.
Every surgeon and every surgery is unique so do your homework. I had MIS posterior approach, uncemented. VERY experienced and skilled surgeon!! No muscles cut, so I was weight bearing the next morning, skipped the walker and on crutches that afternoon and by evening I had done stairs and was cruising the halls! That was when they decided to send me home the next day since I was beyond what they could do for me at the hospital. BUT, I was in very great phyiscal condition and strong as can be, so I am not the norm, but it does show what can be done.
I can't tell you not to be scared, I was too. But, I can tell you that I have my life back now. I would do it all over again in a heartbeat but not wait so long! If you work hard at it, your recovery will go by fast and soon you will living your life without all the pain in your hips. Be positive and get stong! Good luck,
Andrea