Hip Infection* I am the Storm

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So happy to hear from you even though it is bad news--AGAIN! I want you to know we all care about you and want you to know that even if you are sad, happy, mad, hurting or totally depressed we want to hear how you are doing. When you are silent I really worry about you!
 

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@danelady — was hoping “no news was good news.” So sorry to hear that you had yet another dislocation. If they gave out prizes, you'd win, for sure. It sounds you are coping amazingly but good grief, enough already!!
 

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Oh my gosh, @danelady , this is a most amazing story. And you are so tough. Driving there. I wish you a good recovery, all the best for the future and no more dislocations (fingers crossed).
 
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All of you are just so kind, sharing your words of hope with me makes my trip feel not so much like a long drawn out battle but more like an opportunity to grow and learn. Thank you, every word helps.
 

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Danelady I'm so impressed with your resilience for all you have been through and your sense of humor. I can't believe you drove the truck with a dislocated hip, I know I would not have the mental strength to do that. Here's hoping there are no more dislocations in your future.
 

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@danelady .... sometimes gifts come from the most unexpected places. For many of us, having joint replacement surgery has been an opportunity to learn things about our bodies, about compassion for others, and most importantly....about patience and the strength to know when to rely on others who care about you for help. You are one strong woman and I truly believe you'll come through all this just fine. Hang in there!
 

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I was wondering what happened. First off, I want to thank your for your very real dialogue about the mental sequelae of unexpected, ongoing issues. The struggle is real and I really dislike false positivity. With that said, I really am happy that you are able to have gotten the assistance that you did during your most recent "event". Indeed there comes a time when we go on with our life. I had a blind friend who did an internship with me decades ago. While supervised, she contintued to correct supervisors who said "adusting to a disability". She said nope, it's adjusting WITH a disability. I thought always that this was an odd nuance of words. And art- what a great way to express what is sometimes without words.
 

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Hi @danelady ! Surely, you will grow and learn since you are so strong and persevering. I also like your sense of humour you kept despite all the disasters.
For driving with a dislocated hip, if I had been in your shoes, I would surely have got told off by the doctor:). I must admit, I also did something naughty, when I had a bicycle accident and broke my tibia head - same side as my hip replacement, but the hip held up. I got up, cycled to work and home, and went to work for another whole week until I went to the see the doctor for a diagnosis. I simply thought I just had a bruise because the pain was not so bad. But the family urged me to see a doctor for an x-ray because I did not stop limping. So then I had to have an operation - two plates were inserted to keep the bone in place. You can read about that in my thread. And I had to cancel my Frankfurt Marathon, which I was looking forward to so very much. And it was not until 2 weeks ago, that I ran this marathon at Frankfurt and finished it (cancelled 3 times 1x because of the accident, 2x because of COVID19). So I can relate to you very much. We seem to have something in common.
 

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I think Jamie hit the nail right on the head. We do develop compassion for others once we have gone through some of these physical challenges.
 
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OH YOU GUYS!

@Jamie Dearest Jamie, an aura of serenity surrounds you and luckily it has no problem traveling the ethernet, making your thoughts available to anyone who will stop, look and listen. Thank you for your input.

@Constanze Absolutely amazing! Running a marathon is out of my league, much less dealing with the issues you had as well! My surgeon told me in the beginning that my main problem was a high pain threshold. I guess we have to learn when it's ok to just 'shake it off' and when we have to stop and get something looked at and treated, lol. Also....we do not 'seem' to have something in common, I was born in my grandmother's bed in Pforzheim.

All the rest of you, your words are written across my heart.

I lived in northern Nevada for few years, pretending I actually wanted to be a wife, lol. I became a regular visitor at the Interpretive Center run by the Madam and (what do you call the husband of the Madam of the local brothel?) I became consumed by the stories of the emigrants, especially the women who rode along with their husbands across the unforgiving Black Rock Desert and Sierra Nevada Mtns. They were not frail or wispy, they were survivors. Driving the big rig on those lonely 2 lane roads between Idaho, Oregon and Nevada I always thought of those women, holding on to the reins of their covered wagons, carrying whatever was left of the lives they once lived. They were the tough ones, not me. I gotta have my air conditioning and toilet paper. Lol.

Much love.
 

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Please share the hardware they put in....procedure, etc. I'm headed for a revision with a constrainment device, the DR is still working on a plan. You mentioned your DR saying you could still dislocate? It was my understanding that there is hardware to prevent further dislocation?
 

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I am going to tag @danelady for you to make sure she sees your post and questions above.
Best Wishes as you move forward. I hope you have a nice holiday this week!

:hi: @danelady Wishing you a good week and a Happy Thanksgiving!
 
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@Layla Thank you Layla! Let me gather my thoughts here a minute and I'll try and answer Gray Horse's questions. I went to town today for a follow up visit, mostly to check the dressing, wants me back in a week to take the stitches out. He also put me back on antibiotics. I saw the x-rays, the ring sticks out, can really see it. I'll try and take a screenshot of it off his tablet next week.

This past week I was hiding from everyone! I came down with a severe case of cold urticaria, at least I think that's what it is. I lived in northern Nevada and worked at a gold mine and the cold was just so unbearable to me that I wore two sets of long johns under my clothes. Every now and then a section of skin, like on my upper butt, lower back would get exposed to the extreme cold and I'd start to break out in hives which would cover my whole body. Well, it happened again here! We got super cold here and I broke out in severe hives! The worst part was the itchiness! Those metal back scratchers I got.....oooh, they worked good but afterwards I looked like I got in a fight with a bobcat! Lol. Almost gone now, I can see my knuckles again tonight and my eyelids have receded. Just the craziest of days!! lol
 
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Please share the hardware they put in....procedure, etc. I'm headed for a revision with a constrainment device, the DR is still working on a plan. You mentioned your DR saying you could still dislocate? It was my understanding that there is hardware to prevent further dislocation?
Here's a quick synopsis of the work done.
Original THR January, 2017.
Around October of 2021 I started getting sharp pains in my groin. Turns out my femoral and acetabular components were protruding through the back of the socket. Protrusio acetabuli they called it.
First revision was back in January they tried using a bigger cup which didn't last 2 weeks. They said I had significant bone loss, Dr Wayne Paproski would have classified my damaged hip at a 3A or 3B. They said the only other recourse I now had was a Zimmer Biomet custom fit, tri-flange cup/cage as my new acetabulum, my femoral component was just fine so they left it alone. I won't go into the pain, anger and depression I felt while waiting for something to be done. This is was NOT what I ever expected when I I originally got my THR.

August 15 was my second revision when I got my new acetabulum put in. The very next day I stood up and was amazed to finally put weight on my operative leg and not feel any pain! Of course I had to learn to walk again, but it worked....until 4 weeks later when the dislocations started. As you remember, I had a brace built and was given a knee immobilizer but my surgeon said after the dislocations start there is no guarantee that the brace will stop them.

My 4th dislocation was Nov 9th and when my surgeon happened to see me in the ER, he lassoed me to an operating table and put in....a LocRing I think he called it. It's supposed to hold the cup in there, but again, no guarantee. I can get ya the name of the last piece he put in.

Man, I need to read up on what you're going through right now.
 
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I have been in a knee immobilizer for 8+ weeks 24/7 (except when watching tv on my bed a few hours a day) due to a dislocation. Will be in it until surgery, still awaiting a surgery date, lots of delays just had aspiration yesterday which was unsuccessful / no fluid.. Lots of fun...hang in there.
Oh Gray Horse, NOW I remember. Still waiting? In that knee immobilizer?
My heart goes out to you! The waiting that drove me crazy! Keep us posted!
 
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Waiting for the dr's office to open to let them know incision is bleeding. Yesterday he took the Pico and dressing off but left the stitches. He stuck a light gauze on the incision and told me to come back in a week. I got up several times through the night and it was fine but just now when I got up blood came gushing out. So I'll see if he wants me to come in.
 

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