@Hedie
I echo all of the things that have been said.....and I am by myself in this process. And believe me.....sitting around and having to have others “do things” for me was not in my skill set before this. Lean on people.... I have found they want to help.
Ice...ice...baby! I literally was tired of being cold. I iced close to 24/7 for the first two weeks. I have used close to 50 10 lbs bags of ice in my machine. It helps with the pain.
Try to listen to your body and get on a nap schedule if you can. I found this helped the sleeplessness.
Lastly, figure out distractions .....a list of things to do each day. These can be as simple as “go to the bathroom”
in the first days, but could include TV binge watching, filing personal papers, doing some coloring, doing a craft, organizing trades people to come give you estimates, (roof in my case) doing some laundry, organizing old photos, write a letter, return emails, update CV, update address book, etc. I found that this task list made my time a bit more “productive”. It was consequently less about what I couldn’t do because of the knee.....and more about what I accomplished during caring for the knee.
Like
@Denny39 said, there are moments to celebrate. You just have to be able to recognize them. I had found Bonesmart months before my surgery so I had some prep time.
I set up goals/rewards prior to surgery like “When I am able to drive, I can buy a new pickleball paddle.” “When I transition to a cane from the walker, I can have Baskin Robbins”. “When I can get into the car by myself, I can look at starting to plan my next vacation.” (Yes I am a total Type A)
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