Hi Yellowrose,
I'm heading to my 2nd TKR soon, but all my husband did first time ‘round was make sure my pills were organized, bring me things when I was too pain-ridden to get them myself, and provide emotional support plus watching over me as I learned how to do stuff with new baby knee. He was the cook, but he made simple stuff...
This time I’m normally his care-giver as he battled leukemia which he beat, but he is now legally blind. So, this time a friend is coming to stay the first 3 nights, and I hired a helper to come in 2x a day to help get us meals for the first couple of weeks.
My daughter and her family live nearby and I could get other friends to stop by if needed, I know... I got a big freezer so I can pre-make some favorite meals to package in meal-sized containers, too. My main goal is to not need me to be on my feet too much, based on last time’s issue of pain not well controlled at first, but that’s because I had bad reactions to the drugs... most everyone else didn’t have those issues...
I bet you’ve done friends lots of favors so now it’s your turn to get some help back maybe?
Good luck with your surgery and I’ll be filling in a few weeks!