I mentioned I was thinking about getting a dog, a while back. I had some wise advice from several hippies and in particular,
If you go ahead, you and your husband must have a very honest, frank discussion about budget for saving your dogs life. If your limit is 2,000, you must be in agreement. Otherwise you can be in danger of running with emotions and going far beyond a comfortable budget.
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I wonder if you might consider options to give it a try without making a permanent commitment before you get your own puppy. …
Well, I had the money limit discussion with my husband. Time passed.
Yesterday husband came home from a long overdue visit to the dentist with a list of major works required to his teeth, and the cost thereof. “I think we may have to have me put down” he said dolefully.
Also implementing
@Carriemay60 ’s advice, I signed up to a website called “Borrowmydoggy” which matches owners to willing walkers/sitters. Today I met Max and his lovely owner, who already has borrowers several times a week. She (owner) can no longer walk far after a knee replacement gone bad ( scary that). I took him for a walk and we have another date for Friday.
Max is about as far removed from my dream puppy as possible, being large, male and mature (14). But a lovely dog, very well behaved and friendly. Despite being nearly 100 in dog years he can walk further and faster than me and the new hip, but is patient enough to keep to my pace.
Oh, by the way, don’t worry, I am keeping the husband.