Thank you!! I appreciate it and will add to the list!Forgot to add one thing ........... fresh batteries in the remote as you will be using it a lot in the first few weeks![]()
It is important to try to remain positive, but even so, many of us do struggle at times, so if that happens, try not to worry.know attitude is half the battle, so I will remain positive
I know attitude is half the battle, so I will remain positive
Layla, you are the best! I really needed to hear your words this morning. I so appreciate all the support and guidance you have given me. I need to keep my eye on the prize. I am sure it will all be fine but I have a much better idea of what to expect and how to manage my expectations. Thank you for everything!!Hi KC Kitty,
The thought of surgery and recovery does cause anxiety for the majority of us, so we understand. After surgery most wonder why they put surgery off for so long. I tried to focus on how much fuller my life would be after early recovery each time the anxiety ramped up. You're extremely brave to me to agree to bilateral surgery. You're young, but not too young for joint replacement these days, but I feel that is in your favor.
I'm betting you'll do great and we'll be here to support and encourage you when you need it.
After joint replacement, many purchase a new comfortable, but supportive pair of shoes to avoid the wear pattern in your most worn old shoes. So you many want to consider that if you haven't already.
Extra bed pillows were key for me. Not only were they useful for propping limbs, but I took comfort in surrounding myself with them. An inexpensive body pillow from Target quickly became one of my faves.
I am sure you've pretty much checked off all you think you'll need from the Recovery Aids list. So a couple more items not on the list - Lip Balm, I had really chapped lips after surgery, especially post op. A decent sized water bottle is also nice so you don't constantly need a refill. Hydration is very important post op for many reasons, one being it assists your body in getting rid of the toxins of anesthesia. A long shoe horn will come in handy at some point also. Lastly, meal prep. Having easy to prep or even frozen meals on hand initially as well as healthy grab and go snacks will make your early recovery easier. One last thing that I found beneficial was a large garbage bag on the car seat for the drive home from my surgery site. I was able to slowly swivel (windshield facing) with ease.
I did mention the following earlier in this thread, but it may ease any pre-op jitters to keep this in mind -
Joint replacement surgery is one of the most prevalent surgeries performed worldwide. The outcomes of these surgeries have become excellent based on a number of techniques changing over the years. The implants are durable and long lasting, with longevity much greater than before offering an increase in the likelihood you’ll never have to experience this procedure again.
Wishing you all the best along with lots of comfort and peace of mind as you await the 9th.
@KC Kitty
Thank you for the suggestion! A calendar is a GREAT idea! We recently moved to a new city so I will just have to schedule "Phone Visits" with my friends from KC!I know attitude is half the battle, so I will remain positive
I didn’t have a bilateral but I knew mentally it was going to be really hard on me with 3 surgeries in 2 years. I was really afraid of the post op blues. So one thing that helped sooo much was I bought a wall calendar (a pretty one, with rainbows!) and before the surgery, I scheduled visits with friends at my house, the first one a few days after surgery and then one visit a week for the first month or two. I wrote them on the calendar so I could see it from my bed. When I was feeling down, I could look over at my calendar and think, “tomorrow I’ll see Nancy!” It really helped me to see people and get out of my own head, and the visual reminder gave me something to look forward to. You are right that the mental part can be a big part of the challenge. I wish you the best of luck and happy healing!
Hi Roy, THANK YOU! It is so nice to hear from you. I so appreciate the reassurance. I have a wonderful husband who I know will support me thru this. I will owe him big time!!!Only just caught this thread; I had BTKR just over 10 years ago, very successful. See my BILATERAL TKR Recovery Diary
Living on one level is good, if you can.
A supportive partner is a gift from God. You will feel pretty compromised for a couple of weeks.
I am 100% for BTKR. 1 surgery, 1 recovery, recoveries of both knees in parallel, not in series.
Nope. He will have paid back the tiniest part of his debt to you. Ask any married man how that works.I will owe him big time!!!
THANK YOU!!! I so appreciate the encouragement!Nope. He will have paid back the tiniest part of his debt to you. Ask any married man how that works.I will owe him big time!!!
And he will be pleased and proud to be able to do so. Ask him.
Thank you Arjay! Having never been through it, I am sure I don't know what I am in for and it seems daunting to me, but trusting my surgeon. Thank you for the warm wishes. I so appreciate it and I promise to keep you posted!! I hope you have a wonderful 2023!!Wow, KC Kitty, that clock is ticking down! I am in awe of anyone who does bi-lateral (also, I'm more than 20 years older than you and live alone - maybe that's partly why it seems SO daunting!) But just wanted to wish you well…and hope you'll keep us posted on 'All Things Recover.' Cheers!