I did not realize that by providing an update on my first post-op visit that I would stir up such a controversy. I was merely reporting on a conversation that I had with my OS, summarized some of HIS REMARKS, and now I feel like I am being crucified for doing so.
@BCSAnna, Please don't feel this way.
I don't think any of the comments were aimed at you. Rather, people were saying what rubbish they felt your surgeon's words about mental attitude were.
You reported that your surgeon said this:
"I perform over 400 knee replacements a year and I will tell you, how well the patient does post-op purely depends on the patient. Some patients think it is the worst thing they have ever experienced while others, such as yourself, say that wasn't anywhere near as bad as I thought it was going to be. Those patients are mentally prepared for the surgery and recovery and are determined to have the best possible outcome. And those patients are my "Rock Stars."
While he's right in part, that a good mental attitude can sometimes make recovery seem better, there are also many reasons why some people have an easier recovery than others. For example, the state of a knee before surgery - a really badly deteriorated knee will need more work done during surgery and it will also have caused muscle weakness before surgery. Therefore, a harder recovery.
The amount of work done during surgery is also going to affect recovery - the more extensive the surgery, the longer it will take, the more bruised the soft tissues will be, and the more difficult the recovery could be.
It's that your surgeon appeared to be blaming his patients for poor recoveries, rather than taking into account other relevant factors, that people are disliking. Unfortunately, blaming the patient seems to be part of our culture at times, and we see it far too often, especially when PT therapists blame or frighten their patients because their ROM is slow to develop.
I'm sure that your surgeon didn't mean to give the impression that mental attitude is the only factor. He just didn't mention any other factors.
We really pleased you're having a good recovery. Nobody begrudges you that. In fact, we love to hear of good recoveries, so enjoy yours.