@Puggles I am so sorry you are running into these appointment and provider difficulties! I have found that the best time for me to make appointments with both my regular doctor and any other provider is first thing Monday morning - not convenient for me as I don't like getting up early. But that time means provider is fresh from a weekend off, has not had to deal with any office emergencies yet, his/her nurse/assistant is fresh and relaxed, and appointment is usually on time! Plus provider usually has a bit of extra time to talk.
If you have the option do send the NP an email with your questions! Without knowing the name of the medication she suggested it is hard to know if that would be helpful to you. Alas many insurance companies require patients to have "less invasive" (AKA cheaper) treatments before going in for surgery.
Getting a second or third opinion is a good idea. Do be aware that many surgeons are not known for their "warm and attentive" bedside manner. They are great surgeons but often do not have time or talent to really talk to their patients. Go in with a list of questions and be prepared to hand the list to the surgeon if questions are not answered during the visit.
I sincerely hope you have much better experiences in the future!
If you have the option do send the NP an email with your questions! Without knowing the name of the medication she suggested it is hard to know if that would be helpful to you. Alas many insurance companies require patients to have "less invasive" (AKA cheaper) treatments before going in for surgery.
Getting a second or third opinion is a good idea. Do be aware that many surgeons are not known for their "warm and attentive" bedside manner. They are great surgeons but often do not have time or talent to really talk to their patients. Go in with a list of questions and be prepared to hand the list to the surgeon if questions are not answered during the visit.
I sincerely hope you have much better experiences in the future!