well I have some news... I will still be a February surgery but I have now been moved to Feb 28th!! My mom was put in the hospital 8 hrs away from me..... After much anguish not knowing what to do now as my surgery was now less than 24 hours away i decided to call my surgeon.. I was put through to his nurse and i explained my situation. Now what happened next surely warms my heart, we need more Drs like my Dr Shah!! He himself got on the phone and made it all so easy, he said family first!! you need to go take care of your mom and that he wanted me not to be in a worried state and upset over mom going into the surgery.. he said he would make it very simple and move my name to a slot for surgery in 2 weeks, so now you go off and take care of your mom. What a great doctor to put all that ahead of himself, without hesitation!! sooo now my new date is Feb 28th!! Soooo Im still going to be a February Valentine!! will this group move forward together to the post op side? Follow each other through?