All those things you mention in your last paragraph are good things. We all recover at our own pace. ROM can continue for a long time, so there really isn’t any rush to get it, like surgeons and PTs want us to. I don’t understand what their rush is, all I know is their rush stresses us out!
My recovery from my partial has not gone well, but even in spite of that, at 17 months, my ROM continues to improve. I have not been measured since my one year check up but I can feel it’s better now than it was then.
Some people have what we consider fabulous ROM numbers, and yet still have pain.
Personally, I’ll take the low pain, slow ROM route any day, especially knowing what I know now 17 months post op!
Try to relax, there are so many people who have too much to say about how we’re NOT doing, who don’t even understand what we’re going through. Try to tune them out and come here for encouragement, all of us here understand, even if we are on different time tables.
I don’t know what to say about the questions you have, I will have to leave those for someone with more experience.