JackieS: I agree, the people who tend to post more seem to often be the people who are more in need of support and/or are having problems. I did really well after the surgery, great ROM and extention, very little pain and I found myself not posting because I didn't want to seem to be bragging about doing better more quickly than some of the others. I do not think I am in the minority either, I think the majority of TKR's do really well and probably feel the same way. And it is true, when we are having problems or not doing so well it is only natural to want to have support and reassurance, that is what makes this forum so great. The first week or two after surgery are difficult and can be painful but that goes by so quickly you soon forget. The thrill of returning to your life after so many months of being unable to do much is just overwhelming. I don't think I dared dream prior to surgery that it could possibly be as wonderful as it ended up being. There are a lot of younger people on the forum who have had such difficulty and here I was 67 and healing so rapidly and returning to my life so quickly at times I literally felt guilty. Especially after everyone was so wonderful to me after my son was killed right before my surgery was scheduled and then I got sick and it had to be postponed. The last thing I wanted to be percieved as was ungrateful and to come on to the forum and tell everyone how wonderfully I was doing seemed like bragging. I suspect there are a lot of folks who might feel the same way.
Bikers: You guys really have active lives and it would be terrible to sit it out. The scary part of this surgery is what they put you to sleep for. When you wake up you are going to hurt but the pain is not going to be as bad as what you are in now. Just think about how much better your life is going to be afterwards and the fear will go away. Plus, you have all of us here praying for you and pulling for you and sending good thoughts your way. The most important thing you have to do is make sure you have a good surgeon. To me that is what makes the biggest difference, having a really great surgeon who knows his stuff and is going to do a great job for you. I knew from the minute I met my OS that he was going to do his best and he did even better than I could have imagined. Good luck and know we have all been there and will be there for you too as you go through this.
Rowdy