LaKarune
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I think they are in the UK so FML isn’t applicable.
I think they are in the UK so FML isn’t applicable.
Yes that’s what our FMLA does…..guarantees you “A” job, doesn’t have to be the one you left.I have filled out my paperwork for it. My manager said they can hold my position for 45 days. It’s my understanding that while I’ll still have a job- after the 45 days- it may not be on the same unit as they’ll need to cover their staffing needs. ( I’m a nurse) it should be fine- I’m a worrier, though.
Your words are so kind. Thank you for the encouragement!Hello and Welcome! to BoneSmart. Thanks for joining us!
I am so sorry you're experiencing fears / tears and panic. I did also, so I understand. I did shed some quiet tears in bed the night before my surgery giving thanks for all of the good years my hip gave me and prayed for peace of mind and some sleep. I took comfort in that little ritual as I moved closer to parting ways with my natural hip. We are blessed to live in an era that allows us a second chance. In the not too distant past, we may have been forced to spend our lives in a wheelchair, often dependent on others. Thankfully, you have another option. I know you will be surprised at how quickly you adjust to a new, ever evolving, routine on the way back to engaging in all that you love....without the pain! It's wonderful!
We all have anxiety pre op anxiety, to varying degrees. All you can do is go through the motions with your focus on a brighter furture. Try not to allow yourself time to wallow in the fear or panic by staying busy today and tonight. I hope you have an early surgery tomorrow.
Pre op (prep) will move quickly, you're pretty busy answering questions and speaking with various medical professionals, likely your surgeon, possibly the anesthesiologists, and multiple nurses. They keep the conversation light, even sharing laughs etc. At least that was my experience. Their demeanor is calming as it will be just another Tuesday for them, doing what they were trained to do and what they do best. Just as you want the perfect outcome, they do also. As, Jaycey, mentioned, let them know you are anxious and they can give you something to take the edge off. It will help.
I wish you comfort and peace of mind as you wait. We will be thinking of you and look forward to following your healing journey on the bright side. Please join us there as soon as you're feeling up to it.
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