Hi @motogirl I so sorry to find you feeling so blue. You will get some good instructions and guidance from a good OT, as Pumpkin recommended and you won't be "nearly an invalid" for the remainder of your life.
Just take things a day at a time, friend. Hopefully the surgeon was trying to make sure that you took things seriously in regards to the limitations. What a shame he didn't give you better instructions in the first place
For the time being, let time be on your side and try to keep your mind busy and don't fret.
Hopefully, as you progress you will get a better prognosis.
Take care and know we are here, pulling for your successful recovery.
Just take things a day at a time, friend. Hopefully the surgeon was trying to make sure that you took things seriously in regards to the limitations. What a shame he didn't give you better instructions in the first place
For the time being, let time be on your side and try to keep your mind busy and don't fret.
Hopefully, as you progress you will get a better prognosis.
Take care and know we are here, pulling for your successful recovery.