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@GrannyC, maybe I am attempting to take on too much. As the primary caregiver for my entire family, it's hard to let go of my "to-do" list. Thankfully I work from home, so my work load is only as heavy as I want to make it. I feel I have to get all these things done because I'm not sure how long it'll be before I'm able to do it all again. But you're right that a lot of this can wait. My biggest fear is getting sick in the next three weeks and having to postpone my surgery. Thanks to the pain I'm not really sleeping well these days, so I'm certainly in danger of catching something. I'll try to take it a little slower.
@Carriemay60 we don't have much family in town to help with the kids. But we did just hire a nanny starting last week. She'll be helping with the kids during the day. My oldest is in preschool and I hope that when I come home from the hospital she'll be at school. My surgery is on a Wednesday, so I imagine I'll be home either Thursday or Friday. I'm most worried about my oldest seeing me in a lot of discomfort that first weekend home. I've already arranged for her to have a playdate with friends on Saturday and I've enlisted another friend to help out on Sunday. I think it'll be impossible to avoid her seeing mommy in pain, but she's a bright kid and I think she can handle it.
It's amazing how quickly the big day comes upon you. I'm still not sure what exactly I should get in advance for my recovery. I called my OS's office and asked about recovery aids and they said that everything is taken care of when I leave the hospital. But that feels last-minute to me. Are there any things you think I should already have set up and waiting at home? Like the toilet riser, for example? Funny, but I'm most apprehensive about using the bathroom post-surgery. I have RA in all of my joints (including my wrists) and it might be difficult for me to get up and down, even with leverage.
I'm also worried about having a massive flare up post-surgery. I've been off of all my meds since conceiving my 8-month-old and my arthritis has gotten pretty bad. I hope I can get back on my meds soon after surgery - but I know that some of the medications increase my chances of developing an infection in the new joint. Does anyone have any experience with DMARDs after THR? My OS is not very helpful in this regard. He's impossible to get on the phone (as he's in such high demand) and his PA said I should talk to my rheumatologist. I'm seeing her today, so we'll see what she says. I suspect she's going to want me to start taking Tramadol for my current pain, but I really want to hold off on narcotics until after the surgery for maximum effect.
Anyway, I appreciate all your support and advice. Hope you all have a wonderful pain-free day.