Moms don't quit either. I as a mom would take some time to rethink the situation and come up with a different avenue to contact more surgeons. I would probably keep looking with husband, send xrays via internet. Keep looking, persistent will pay off. Maybe hit up some medical universities for info. My daughter has severe allergies and she gets discouraged and quits looking for relief, for a time. We all get tired of our situations and the struggle for help, however we are geared to keep persisting. Give your daughter time to regain her courage, while you keep fighting for her. My mama spirit is with you.