What should I make sure I have onhand for my recovery? Lots of pillows to elevate my knees, maybe warm footies with non-skid stuff on the bottoms? What do you wish you had thought of pre-op?
I bought several pair of those footies with non-skid stuff on the bottom at CVS, and I used them when I came home. I do recommend that move.
I picked up a walker at a resale shop for $10. Same with a footed cane. I already had crutches and other types of canes. I didn't have a recliner, so I got one that I could sleep in -- was very useful for the first three weeks after I came home from the hospital, and I still use it for resting and icing during the day. I got a non-skid mat for the tub and a shower stool. I already had a hand held shower head. I got the toilet riser (kind of wish I'd gotten two -- I told my husband last week I wanted a tall toilet for my birthday).
I got a pair of slip on shoes and a long-handled shoe horn. I already had an extendable grabber (TeleScoPic) to keep near my recliner. It's quite handy. I thought about all the things I'd want near me and pre-positioned them. Since I didn't plan to go upstairs for up to a month, I thought about all the things that were upstairs that I might need and brought them downstairs before I went to the hospital (clothes, books, blanket, pillows, DVDs, a DVD player and television, various electronic devices, a box for snacks, medications, hand lotion, tissues, a small trash basket, pen, and paper.
There's a couple articles in the library that will help you, but these are some of the things I did that I found helpful for me.